NOT MATTER WHAT IT IS, ENCOURAGE YOURSELF IN THE LORD AND MOVE!!
1 Samuel 30:3-8 KJV
 So David and his men came to the city, and, behold, it was burned with fire; and their wives, and their sons, and their daughters, were taken captives.
 Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had no more power to weep.
 And David’s two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite.
 And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God.
 And David said to Abiathar the priest, Ahimelech’s son, I pray thee, bring me hither the ephod. And Abiathar brought thither the ephod to David.
 And David enquired at the Lord , saying, Shall I pursue after this troop? shall I overtake them?
And he answered him, Pursue: for thou shalt surely overtake them , and without fail recover all .
What “heartbreaking” situation are you?
Do no give up in despair!! Hold on tight and encourage yourself in the Lord!! He has not brought you this far to leave you in this situation to sink!!
Encourage yourself in Him and go back to Him in prayer and then ARISE and move on again!!